Dave and I went to the Catholic Engaged Encounter this weekend. Its a marriage preparation retreat run by a non-profit organization. Basically, it is 6 months of pre-marital counseling in one weekend. Whew! (i just wiped sweat from my forehead)
We are so exhausted as we return to the real world. (In fact, I was so exhausted that I am just now, June 10th, finishing this post)
It was a great opportunity for us to go on this weekend. It is structured like an intense one-on-one retreat, but with 59 other couples. Despite being surrounded by people we spent most of the weekend together, but not alone. It was strange to be surrounded by people, but, at the same time, totally focused on Dave. I suppose that is how we will journey through life. Although, both of us will be focused on God.
The weekend challenged us to explore issues that emerge in marriage--goals, family planning, communication, decision making, prayer, etc. etc.--and learn where we stood together now. Most people call it a make or break weekend. Well, we are pleased to report that it only confirmed for us how God has made us for each other. We were able to communicate, grow closer, and deepen our love for each other. I am so pleased that God brought us to a church that requires us to participate in this kind of preparation. We are ready for marriage (as ready as anyone can be) and we feel confident that we can grow in our relationship, communicate well, and show the love of Christ to each other and the world!
